Attention: Female Entrepreneurs Who Want It All – A Thriving Business and a Healthy Romantic Relationship. It is possible!

Revealed! A Groundbreaking 4-Step System Customized for Businesswomen of every type!

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Yes, you CAN have it all! You can learn to create a partnership that allows both your company and your romance to prosper – at the same time!

From Michele DeKinder-Smith and Dr. Patty Ann Tublin
February 07

Dear Entrepreneurial Friend,

From the outside, it probably seems like you’re living a dream. You’re in a stable romantic relationship, and you own a business you love.

You spend your days working on your company, stretching your creativity and helping your clients and customers. You have someone to come home to every evening, someone to share your stories with, and someone you can ask for feedback. This is every female entrepreneur’s dream, right??

So why does it sometimes feel like you and your romantic partner are out of sync and your relationship is going backwards? Why does it feel like certain topics (especially time and money investments in your business) are “off limits” because they are destined to start a fight? Why does it feel like you’re competing with each other instead of supporting each other? There HAS to be a solution.

Does any of this sound familiar?

  • You feel like you’re constantly forced to choose between your partner and your business. Wouldn’t it be great if someone could teach you how you can choose both?
  • You and your significant other constantly argue about the amount of time and/or money you invest in the company – and how it takes away from your time together. Wouldn’t you love to learn how your business’ prosperity could light the fire in your romance?
  • Your partner constantly criticizes your business because it’s not what he or she wants you to be doing. What if someone could show you how to value your partner’s opinions, while remaining true to your own heart?
  • Your communication style is great at work, but whenever you start talking with your significant other, a fight or argument breaks out. Wouldn’t you like to learn how to use your most effective communication skills at home?
  • You and your partner can talk and talk about anything – except your business. When you start talking business, the fireworks ignite (and not the good fireworks!). What if you could learn a system for reading your partner’s cues so you knew exactly when it was good to talk about your business and when it’s time to stop for awhile?

Here’s the good news: you really can have it all. You can strike the right balance so that success at work and success at home can occur at the same time. You can stop the arguing, and create a partnership that nurtures both of you, while you continue to nurture the business you so love.

It all comes down to one thing: developing a working system that allows you to have BOTH a thriving business and a healthy, loving romantic relationship.

You may be at the point in your life right now where you don’t think it’s possible, where Romance Road and Business Boulevard definitely do not intersect. They haven’t for some time, and in fact, it may look to you like they’re running parallel right now.

Running as fast as possible down each Romance Road and Business Boulevard to find their intersection – working as hard as you can on both fronts – will NOT work if you don’t know where the two actually meet.

So why is a strategy for having BOTH a thriving business and a healthy, loving romantic relationship so important?

  1. It provides boundaries. It is completely natural for you to want to talk about your day. However, your partner probably doesn’t want to spend an entire evening listening to you talk about your business, your team members, your marketing ideas and your new invoice system. Similarly, if your business is booming, it’s natural for you to want or need to spend time working once you get home. A strategy will help you limit the amount of  time and attention you devote to work, so you can give your partner the time and attention he or she deserves. 
  2. It creates priorities. If you’re serious about having it all, you must treat your relationship with as much care as you do your business. That means that you must create time for your relationship, and honor that time as you would an important business meeting. A strategy will ensure that you prioritize exactly as you need to, to strike the right balance.
  3. It provides you with tools to resolve conflict. When conflict arises (and it will in any relationship), emotions can run high. Effective conflict resolution skills mean that instead of engaging in a battle of wills, you and your partner can find a solution that works for you both – and for your business. A strategy will give you steps to follow so that reason wins.
  4. It helps you to keep things in perspective. Whether you’re aware of it or not, your business and its success relate to the health of your relationship. Keeping this relationship in mind is key to maintaining a working balance between the two. A strategy creates a framework you can use to ensure that your partner feels secure in the importance of his or her role in your life.

 

Now you understand that importance of having a strategy for having BOTH a thriving business and a healthy, loving romantic relationship. But if you’ve been working as hard on both fronts as we know you have, and things still seem difficult, it probably seems like there isn’t a strategy around that’s going to help.

And between running a business and nurturing your relationship, you probably feel like you don’t have the energy to devote to coming up with a strategy, much less implementing it.

That is precisely why we are so excited to share with you the system we’ve developed for having it all. Our system is designed to help you find success in your business AND your relationship, to boost your profits and ignite the fire in your relationship, to resolve conflicts in your business and your relationship, and to maintain intimacy while growing your business.

First, though, you’re probably wondering who we are, and why you should listen to us.

Michele DeKinder-Smith, a professional market researcher and founder of Jane Out of the Box, an online resource dedicated to women entrepreneurs, is dedicated  to discovering exactly what women entrepreneurs need to live their ideal lives. She owns her own research company, Linkage Research, and she’s put her exceptional research skills to use interviewing more than 2,500 female business owners – and to helping them find success, however they define it.  She understands the challenges women business owners face every day and is committed to bringing them the tools and resources necessary to take control of their lives and businesses for greater joy and income.

Dr. Patty Ann Tublin is an internationally-known relationship expert who excels at helping couples create the relationships of their dreams. She earned a Doctorate in Clinical Psychology, Master’s Degrees in Clinical Social Work and Nursing, and she is a Registered Nurse and a board-certified psychotherapist. 

After a difficult pregnancy and long-term medical battle for her twin boys, Dr. Patty Ann and her husband realized that while they still felt deeply about each other, something felt different. They worked and worked to fix it, but the hard work with lack of success made them feel even worse. Finally, Dr. Patty Ann took all her personal experience and knowledge and created strategies for helping her relationship – and it worked. Today, she shares those specific relationship techniques, exercises and workshops with her clients so they may reconnect with their partners and rebuild their relationships. Patty Ann’s husband, Mitch, is her biggest advocate in building her business, even while he is pursuing his own, separate entrepreneurial efforts.

Michele’s deep personal and professional understanding of the daily challenges women business owners face combine with Dr. Patty Ann’s wisdom, experience and relationship advice combine to help the millions of women business owners out there who want a wonderful relationship with their partner but see that their business is standing in the way (or vice versa!).

That’s why we’re so excited about what we’re about to share with you.

We know it’s NOT YOUR FAULT you often feel like you’re forced to choose between your business and your romance. First of all, a business and a romantic relationship each can be very demanding of your time, attention and energy – and exhaustion can easily keep you from being at your best on both fronts. Second, you may be unknowingly sabotaging your own efforts by providing too much or too little information – because you don’t realize your partner wants to hear less or more.

And third, no one has ever provided information like this – a dual-power course based in business and in romance – to help business women just like you to hit their stride in work and in love.

“How to Grow Your Business, Increase Your Profits and REKINDLE the SPARK and ROMANCE in Your RELATIONSHIP”

This 4-week course is designed to provide you with a personalized working strategy for striking the desired balance – to let you have it all!

Here’s just a taste of what you’ll get with our program:

Call 1
“How to be as Successful in Your Romantic Relationship as you are in Your Business”
Thursday, June 3 at 3 p.m. Eastern

Don’t fall into the trap of believing you have to have your business OR your relationship! You really can have it all, and this call is designed to show you how your love for your business and your love for your partner really can be symbiotic.

During Call 1, we’ll cover:

  • The value of partnership versus competition with your significant other.
  • How to create a partnership that acts as the foundation for a win-win scenario.
  • How business growth can lead to a more prosperous relationship.
  • The value and importance of boundaries in your relationship.
  • A strategy for creating emotional boundaries between your work and your romance.

Call 2
“The 4 Essential Steps YOU MUST TAKE NOW to Boost Your Business Profits and put the Spark Back Into Your Relationship”
Thursday, June 10 at 3 p.m. Eastern

It’s time to put your new knowledge of boundaries to work. We’re going to tell you exactly what you need to do to help you keep your work life separate from your home life, and why doing so is absolutely essential. Plus, we’ll teach you how to avoid a fatal mistake many business owners make as their businesses grow. We’ll discuss physical boundaries and work-relationship boundaries so you know exactly how to keep the two separate.

During Call 2 we’ll cover:

  • How to avoid a FATAL mistake entrepreneurs often make when their businesses grow.
  • Why a merged work/life space is an absolute romance killer.
  • How to keep your work-related emotions from blurring into your romance-related emotions.
  • Why it’s critical not to monopolize your conversations with work-related talk (you know what we’re talking about – think about the women you know who constantly monopolize your conversations, talking about their children, and then top it off by showing you stacks and stacks of photos – every time you get together!).
  • Why it’s key to remember that we all have lives outside our entrepreneurial passion – and how remembering it can keep the romance alive.

Call 3
“3 Secret Tools You Can Use to Resolve Conflict in Your Business and Your Relationship, Guaranteed to Work Every Time”
Thursday, June 17 at 3 p.m. Eastern

This powerful call will provide you with effective conflict resolution skills and communication skills, and will demonstrate exactly how you can use them in both your work and your relationship. You might be surprised to learn that effective communication translates seamlessly from work to romance – and how using effective communication can make you prosperous in both!

During call 3 we’ll cover:

  • What can invisibly eat away at the core and fabric of a relationship.
  • How to “say what you mean and mean what you say.”
  • Exactly how you can apply the conflict resolution skills you use at work to your romantic relationship.
  • Why you must NOT assume you can speak to your partner differently than you would a colleague or friend.
  • How to discover and avoid your partner’s “hot buttons.”
  • Why multi-tasking is NOT a good thing when it comes to addressing conflict with your partner.
  • The importance of clarity when addressing a conflict.
  • Why it’s critical to agree to disagree if there’s an issue you can’t resolve.

Call 4
“How to Keep Intimacy in Your Relationship as Your Business Skyrockets”
Thursday, June 24, at 3 p.m. Eastern

It is imperative that you and your partner create a bond related to your business, and that you each honor the other’s needs and feelings. Otherwise, you run the risk of your partner feeling intimidated, threatened and/or emasculated by your success – when you both should be feeling excited, positive and energized by it.

During Call 4 we’ll cover:

  • Why the whole is greater than the sum of its parts – how to keep your business and your relationship in perspective.
  • How to continually test the waters of your relationship as your business grows, and how to react accordingly.
  • Why you need to completely understand how much your partner wants to know about your business and its growth and success.
  • How to honor and respect your partner’s needs with respect to your business plans.
  • How to create a relationship that grows as your business grows and wins as your business wins.

BONUS CALL
CALL 5: Q&A
Tuesday, June 29 at 3pm Eastern

During the course of “How to Grow Your Business, Increase Your Profits and REKINDLE the SPARK and ROMANCE in Your RELATIONSHIP,” you’ll have the opportunity to e-mail us questions that arise during each call. We’ll take the time during this Bonus Call to answer them! So if there’s anything you want more details on, or any aspect of one of the issues we didn’t address, this is your chance to find out more!

Now you may be wondering how we’re going to teach you:

  • How to be as successful in your romantic relationship as you are in your business;
  • 4 essential steps to boost your business profits and put the spark back into your relationship;
  • 3 guaranteed-to-work secret tools to resolve conflict in your business and your relationship;
  • How to keep intimacy in your relationship as your business skyrockets.

Here’s our answer:

  1. First, we’re inviting you to listen in on 4 powerful, 60-minute calls, designed to provide you with a working strategy for having BOTH a thriving business and a healthy, loving relationship. Here’s the call schedule:

Call 1: Thursday, June 3 at 3 p.m. Eastern

Call 2: Thursday, June 10 at 3 p.m. Eastern

Call 3: Thursday, June 17 at 3 p.m. Eastern

Call 4: Thursday, June 24 at 3 p.m. Eastern

  1. We are offering a BONUS CALL, Tuesday, June 29 at 3pm Eastern, during which we’ll answer as many of the questions we receive from YOU as possible.
  2. PLUS, we’re offering this additional fantastic BONUS:

A FREE ticket to the Jane Out of the Box live event October 1 and 2 in Chicago. This action-packed 2-day seminar will lead participants through determining their current entrepreneurial type, and through creating an action plan for attaining success, however they define it. We’ll be joined by business coaching expert Joy Chudacoff and by relationship expert Dr. Patty Ann Tublin, and several participants will have the opportunity for hot seat coaching sessions! (Valued at $397)

 

This sounds wonderful, Michele and Dr. Patty Ann – how much is it all going to cost me?

Before we answer that question, think about the answer to THIS one:

How much is it costing you – in time and energy as well as in money – to feel drained and exhausted from dealing with arguments, stress and anxiety caused by conflict between your business and your romantic relationship?

How much is it worth to you to learn how the two can live together harmoniously in your life? Imagine strategically balancing your business and your relationship so that you live with less tension, less stress, fewer arguments and greater prosperity in both important areas of your life! It is possible, and you can do it! So again, how much is it worth to you?

“How to Grow Your Business, Increase Your Profits and REKINDLE the SPARK and ROMANCE in Your RELATIONSHIP” is designed to help you get to the bottom of what is causing your romantic strife – and to give you real, working strategies that will help you balance your business and your romance, LONG-TERM.

We’re asking for a one-time investment of $497 for information that will work for your entire life, no matter what kind of business you own, or which stage your romantic relationship is in.

How fast could you make that up if you had more energy at work because you had more harmony at home? A week? A few days? An hour?

Plus, the relationship and business techniques you’ll learn will knock years off the long process of struggling to make your relationship work even while you’re devoting so much of yourself to your growing business.

Even better, the information we’re going to share with you will mean that as your business grows, you’ll make more money, and you’ll be able to use that to rekindle the flames of your romance.

The only thing better than seeing your business succeed and thrive because of all your hard work is having someone to share the rewards with.

Think about how much better your life will be when you feel like you don’t have to choose between your business and your partner – when you feel like the two can live in harmony. How much is THAT worth?

And of course, you are protected by our 100% Money-back Guarantee! If, after the second call, you don’t feel like the information is going to work for you, we’ll give you your money back.

Both of us stand behind our products. We’re businesswomen, just like you are, and we also understand the invaluable importance of a having a strong relationship behind you as you pursue your entrepreneurial dreams. That’s why we’ve designed this course to show you exactly how you can have both a thriving business and a strong romantic relationship.

However, if you don’t feel like this course is for you, just let us know before the start of the 3rd call! We’ll give you a refund, no questions asked.

Ready to get started? Or, do you still have a few questions?

Q: My husband and I constantly fight about how much I invest in the business, which hasn’t hit its stride, YET. I know it’s going to take off soon, but how can I justify making yet another investment right now?
A: Think of this as an investment not only in your business but also in your relationship. The communication and conflict resolution skills you’ll learn will give you the tools you need to build a greater foundation for your relationship, from now until you start seeing the profits you work so hard for. We’re going to give you techniques for resolving those conflicts – PLUS, techniques for boosting your income – what better time for making an investment?

Q: My partner wishes I would leave work at work. But if I take this course, I’m going to be on the phone once a week for 5 weeks, in the evenings when I “should be” spending time with my partner. How can I justify spending this “home time” on work-related activity?
A: Again, this is an investment. In this case, it’s a time investment. Remind your partner that this is a short-term investment of evening time that will allow you to spend more quality time together in the very near future.

Q: I’ve been working for years to stop fighting with my significant other about my business. How can I be sure this course will really put an end to the fighting?
A: This course is designed by TWO top experts. Each of us has long-term experience in our field. Michele has intimate knowledge of what you’re going through as an entrepreneur, and Dr. Patty Ann has not only worked as a professional psychotherapist and relationship expert for years, but she also has overcome challenges in her own romantic relationship. You really can’t go wrong learning systems developed by two completely experienced professionals who are passionate about helping you. And remember, if there’s something they don’t cover during the first 4 calls, they’ll answer your questions during the Bonus Call.

Q: I don’t really fight with my partner about the business, but I know it’s not something he wants me to do. He clams up every time I bring up anything to do with the company. Will this course help me?
A: Yes. We are going to teach you exactly how you can work smarter so your company’s success feels like success for your relationship, too. We’re going to teach you the questions to ask your partner so you give him or her exactly the right amount of information, and the skills you need for communicating your own needs and desires as they relate to his or her interest level in your company.

Okay, now are you ready to get started?

   Yes, Michele and Dr. Patty Ann! I want to grow my business while my relationship thrives! I WANT IT ALL! And I’m going to get it by enrolling in “How to Grow Your Business, Increase Your Profits and REKINDLE the SPARK and ROMANCE in Your RELATIONSHIP”!

For my investment of $497, I understand I’m going to get:

  • 4 60-minute calls filled with powerful information about how I can have it all: a thriving business and a healthy romantic relationship.
  • A Bonus Q&A Call, during which I’ll hear the answers to any questions I develop during the first 4 calls.

PLUS, I’m going to get this fantastic bonus:

  • A FREE ticket to Jane Out of the Box’s live event October 1-2 in Chicago valued at $397

And I’m completely covered by your 100% Money Back Guarantee! I have until the start of the 2nd class to get my money back.

 

My investment: $497 (Best Deal)

3 Monthly Payments of $175

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Let’s get started. It is possible – you can have it all!

Here’s to your success, in business and in love,

Michele & Dr. Patty Ann

P.S. The life of your dreams is just a click away! Let us help you have everything you want! Register now!

P.P.S. The strategies we’re going to present to you will provide you with a no-fail system for succeeding in business and in romance – forever!

 

Dr. Patty Ann
Dr. Patty Ann is a sought-after public speaker, author and confidant to other professionals in the field of relationship coaching and expertise. Dr. Patty Ann is a world renowned relationship expert coach and a licensed psychotherapist who has helped hundreds of people learn how to increase romance and happiness in their relationships. She has a doctorate in Psychology, a Master's Degree in Clinical Social Work, a Master's Degree in Nursing, and is a Registered Nurse. She is also a board-certified psychotherapist, having graduated from a prestigious three-year post-graduate psychotherapy training program. Dr.Patty Ann writes a weekly relationship advice ezine called "Two Hearts Beating As One?" and a relationship advice blog at www.drpattyann.com/blog. Dr. Patty Ann has been happily married for 25 years while raising four children together with her husband.

Michele Dekinder-Smith

Michele DeKinder-Smith is a seasoned researcher having specialized in marketing, consumer and business research for over 20 years.  She has interviewed thousands of business owners and is an entrepreneur herself, who’s taken her business over the million-dollar mark!  She understands the needs of large corporations, government agencies and the female entrepreneur.  Through her research, publications, consulting and training Michele helps each of these audiences achieve their goals.

Michele is married to Rob and proud mom to RJ, who currently attends DePaul University in Chicago.  In addition to Jane Out of the Box, Michele owns Linkage Research & Consulting, founded in 1998 and Rob has recently started his own business, Beautiful Day Yacht Charters.